Before our fiance & I got married, every one of us lived together.
I had our bank account from before every one of us got married, & he had his.
I had taken care of all the household bills as part of our living together agreement, & he inspected everything else that cropped up. When I got a better task with the local Heating & Air Conditioning dealer, & was making more money than him, he wasn’t upset, despite the fact that he gave me a list of all the bills & told me to cut them down the middle. I had recently purchased him a motorcycle, & I was paying for our holiday, & he wanted me to pay half the bills. I wondered where this stingy man came from. He wasn’t being frugal, despite the fact that he was making sure I paid our share. I thought every one of us were married, but it was more of a corporation arrangement. I was gleeful they hired me at the local Heating & Air Conditioning dealer, & I was romantic our task, although I wanted to be a wifey & not a occupant. I talked to a single of our Heating & Air Conditioning friends & asked how she & her wifey handled their living situation, then explained what he said. She told me she & her fiance had constantly cut the bills, despite the fact that he was better with money than she was. He paid for all the apartment & car repairs, & she spent whatever was leftover. Maybe our fiance was thinking along the same lines, & I knew I had to talk to him because this was bothering me so much.